Beyond Coloring Books: Braving the World of Melted Crayon Canvas Art

Jodi Carlson
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Beyond Coloring Books: Braving the World of Melted Crayon Canvas Art

Okay, so I did it. I actually went there. The thought popped into my head – melted crayons on canvas! What could possibly go wrong, right? (Spoiler alert: a lot, potentially. But we survived to tell the tale, so grab your coffee and listen up.) As a seasoned veteran of navigating the glorious chaos that is raising a 10-year-old and a spirited 6-year-old, I sometimes get these… creative urges. This was one of them. And honestly, the lure of a potentially Pinterest-worthy moment (mixed with the high probability of a waxy disaster) was just too strong to resist.

So, I decided to unleash my little Picassos on some innocent canvases. Here’s how our gloriously messy endeavor unfolded. Feel free to take these ideas and have some fun with your kids

Our Melted Crayon Canvas Art Adventure

First things first, I had to arm myself… I mean, gather our supplies. Because this wasn’t just crafting; it felt like prepping for a small, colorful war.

The Supplies Needed (aka My Amazon Cart, Because Leaving the House is Overrated):

  • Canvas: I wasn’t about to break out the good stuff. We’re talking melted wax, people! This affordable multi-pack seemed perfect. I grabbed a few different sizes so my 10-year-old could feel like a real artist with their slightly more ambitious ideas, and my 6-year-old could just… well, create.
  • Crayons: I could have gone with the sad remnants in the bottom of their crayon boxes, but I decided to treat us (and hopefully get brighter colors) with a fresh, vibrant set of Crayola Crayon Tub. The pointed ends might offer a smidge more control. Key word: might.
  • Heat Source: This was the slightly terrifying part. For the kids, I opted for my trusty, reliable hair dryer. Seemed the safest bet for little hands, even if it took a while to get things melty. For my own experimental moments (when they were “independently creating”), I considered our heat gun with adjustable temperature – strictly grown-up territory!
  • Surface Protection: I laid down layers of old newspaper like we were prepping for some serious… well, something messy. I also wished I had those large craft mats I saw on Amazon – definitely adding those to my next order.

    Optional Supplies (aka What Saved My Sanity):
    • Gloves for Me: Because scraping melted wax off adult hands is just depressing. These disposable gloves were a lifesaver.
    • Old Clothes for Everyone: Lesson learned from approximately 7,892 previous craft projects.
      • Painter’s Tape: My 10-year-old had grand designs involving straight lines (bless their organized little heart), so this blue painter’s tape came in handy.

The “Creative” Process (aka Our Beautiful, Waxy Chaos):

Canvas Prep
My 10-year-old meticulously taped off sections of their canvas. My 6-year-old? Went straight for the blank space. Different strokes for different folks (and different levels of patience with tape).

Crayon Placement
This was actually kind of mesmerizing. They carefully arranged their chosen crayons along the top of the canvases. Some peeled the paper, some didn’t. It was a true artistic exploration.

Meltdown Time! (Adult Supervision: Level 1000)
Hair dryer in hand, I carefully aimed the warm air at the crayons. Watching the wax melt and drip down the canvas was surprisingly cool. We experimented with tilting the canvases, creating all sorts of waxy rivers.

Layering Adventures (For the Brave)
Once the first layer cooled a bit, my 10-year-old decided to add more crayons for a layered effect. My 6-year-old was pretty happy with their initial colorful explosion.

Tape Reveal
The peeling of the painter’s tape was actually pretty satisfying, revealing clean lines against the waxy background. My 10-year-old was thrilled.

The Aftermath (aka Operation Wax Removal)
We stepped back to admire… our creations. Each one was definitely unique. And then came the cleanup. Let’s just say I’m still finding specks of colored wax in unexpected corners of the house.

My Hard-Earned Mom Tips:

  • Ventilation is Your Friend: Open those windows! Melting wax has a distinct aroma.
  • Embrace the Mess (I Say This Through Gritted Teeth): Seriously, just try to let go of the need for a spotless environment for the duration of this project.
  • Lower Your Expectations (Artistically Speaking): This is about the process, not necessarily the perfect product.
  • Let Them Be the Boss (of the Wax): I tried to offer suggestions, but ultimately, I let them guide their waxy visions.

So, there you have it. My personal journey into the world of melted crayon canvas art with my two wild and wonderful kids. Were they masterpieces? Debatable. Were they memorable? Absolutely. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I have a rogue glob of blue wax to attend to. Wish me luck!

(Disclaimer: I am still finding wax. Send help… and maybe a good wax remover.)

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

What You Can Do to Help Your Child Overcome Shyness (Especially in a Post-COVID World)

Jodi Carlson
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What You Can Do to Help Your Child Overcome Shyness (Especially in a Post-COVID World)

Okay, Mom-to-Mom, Let’s Talk About That Shy Little Human (Even If They Weren’t a Pandemic Toddler). Alright mamas, let’s be real. We’ve all been there, right? That moment when your kid, who is usually a tiny terror at home, suddenly clams up when faced with another human their size. It’s cute, yeah, but also a little heartbreaking, especially when you see them longing to join in but not knowing how.

Now, while my own experience was definitely colored by the whole “toddlerhood during a global lockdown” saga (cue the memories of my little one trying to pet other kids because, well, limited social exposure!), the truth is that shyness is a pretty common thing among kids, pandemic or not. Even years later, as our kids navigate school, activities, playing sports, and simply being around other people, that little hesitant streak can resurface.

So, whether your kid spent their early years blissfully unaware of social distancing or is just naturally a bit reserved, these tips are still super relevant for helping them navigate the sometimes-awkward world of kid interactions. Think of it as a timeless guide to nurturing those little social butterflies.

Decoding the Shyness (And the Instant Best Friend Syndrome)

The fancy articles will tell you shyness isn’t a weakness, and they’re right. It’s often about feeling a little unsure or overwhelmed in social situations. But for some kids, that eagerness to connect can come out a little… strong.

My daughter’s “best friend blitz” wasn’t malicious; it was her way of trying to bridge that social gap quickly. She craved connection but hadn’t quite figured out the pacing. Understanding the reasons behind both shyness and over-eagerness is key.

Operation Social Butterfly: Gentle Training Required

Those “practice social skills” tips? They sound so clinical. But really, it’s just about giving them the tools. For the shy ones, it’s about baby steps into interaction. For the instant best friend brigade, it’s about learning about pacing and building relationships gradually. We started working on things like asking if someone wants to play, rather than just declaring it. Role-playing different ways to join a game or start a conversation became our jam. It’s about teaching them the subtle art of making friends, not just demanding them.

Respect the Bubble (Because Everyone Needs Their Space – Even Kids!)

Everyone says respect their comfort zone, and that goes for everyone involved! For the shy kid, it’s about not pushing them too fast. For the enthusiastic best-friend-seeker, it’s about learning that other kids have their own boundaries and might not be ready for a lifelong commitment after five minutes. We talked a lot about how it’s okay if someone doesn’t want to play right now, and that doesn’t mean they won’t want to later.

Get Them Out There (But Maybe Coach Them a Little)

Playdates are still gold, but sometimes they require a little pre-game pep talk. Beforehand, we’d talk about things like taking turns, sharing, and maybe not asking someone to be their best friend in the first five minutes. For older kids, it might be about navigating group dynamics or understanding social cues. The key is to provide gentle guidance without making them feel like they’re doing something wrong.

Mom-to-Mom Bonus: You’re Not Alone in Navigating Social Situations with Your Kids (The Intense Friendships Are a Trip!)

Look, raising kids is a constant learning curve, and the rollercoaster of childhood friendships is a wild ride. Whether your kid is hesitant or a little too enthusiastic, you are not alone in trying to navigate these social waters. Give them (and yourself) some grace. We’re all in this together, trying to raise socially capable humans who don’t scare off all their potential friends in the first five minutes.

Mom-Approved Product Idea:

I found a gem on Amazon that might actually help with this whole “instant best friend” thing (and the shyness that sometimes hides behind it). It’s a book called “How to Be a Friend: A Book About Making Friends” by Laurie Krasny Brown and Marc Brown. Think super simple, relatable language, and bonus points – it features Arthur and the gang! It gently covers the basics, like being a good listener, being kind, and the revolutionary concept that friendships actually take a little time to blossom. Might be the perfect, non-threatening way to introduce the idea that you don’t have to declare someone your soulmate five seconds after meeting them. Plus, hello, two-day shipping. You know you’re already adding it to your cart. Just search “How to Be a Friend by Laurie Krasny Brown” on Amazon. You’re welcome.

Seriously though, mama, we’ll get through this. Helping our kids find their social footing, whether they’re tiptoeing or full-on sprinting, is a journey. It’s about finding that sweet spot where they feel confident and can connect with others in a healthy way. Hang in there!

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

Steps You Can Take To Help Your Autistic Child Thrive

Jodi Carlson
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Steps You Can Take To Help Your Autistic Child Thrive

Okay, buckle up, fellow mamas, because if you’ve just gotten that autism diagnosis for your kiddo, you might feel like you’ve landed on a whole new planet. Trust me, I’ve been there. My amazing son, who’s ten now and can solve a Rubik’s Cube faster than I can find my car keys, came with his own beautifully unique operating system. It’s not always easy, but oh boy, is it an adventure! So, let’s ditch the clinical jargon and talk real life, mom to mom.

Becoming Your Kid’s Superhero (and Maybe a Fabric Detective)

The moment you hear “autism,” your brain probably starts doing the Google-fu Olympics. And yes, learn all you can! Those books and articles are helpful. But let me tell you, the real education starts with your child. For my guy, it’s like he has a built-in sensory alarm system that goes off for the weirdest things. Forget scratchy tags or stiff denim – pants are practically public enemy number one in our house. We’ve had more meltdowns over seams than spilled milk, that’s for sure. And don’t even get me started on dirt! If a speck lands on him, it’s Code Red. We’re talking immediate scrub-down protocol. It’s like he’s allergic to anything that isn’t perfectly clean.

Then there are the nails. Too short? Cue the sensory discomfort. It’s a delicate balance, folks, a true nail-trimming tightrope walk. Food? Oh, the culinary adventures! It’s not just about being picky; it’s about texture, smell, and even how it looks on the plate. Broccoli might as well be alien invaders. But give him a light show, a splash in the tub, or a swing session, and his sensory tank gets filled right up. It’s like finding the cheat codes to their happiness.

The biggest lesson I’ve learned is to truly see my son – his joys, his triggers, and his wonderfully unique way of experiencing the world. It’s not about changing him; it’s about understanding his language.

Navigating the School Jungle (and the Comfort of a Knowing School Team)

School can be a battlefield for kids with ASD, especially when consistency and clear explanations are their superpowers. Even seemingly small changes can feel monumental, and the fear of the unknown can be incredibly overwhelming. My son thrives on predictability, and thankfully, we’ve been incredibly fortunate to have a truly supportive team at his school. Having his principal and vice principal in the loop about his specific needs, along with his amazing teachers, has made a world of difference in navigating those tricky situations.

I remember one day, I got a call from his teacher about a situation that perfectly illustrates this. Another child in the class was having a tough time and needed to be moved to the front of the room for better supervision. To make space, my son was moved to a desk in the back. Now, for most kids, this might be a minor inconvenience. But for my son, who operates in a world of black and white, this sudden change initially translated to one thing and one thing only: he had done something wrong. He started to get really upset, convinced he was in trouble. However, because his teacher understood his tendency to jump to this conclusion, she immediately reassured him, explaining exactly why he was being moved and emphasizing that it had absolutely nothing to do with his behavior.

This kind of proactive understanding from his school team is invaluable. They’ve also been incredible in helping him manage his testing anxiety. Because they know how much unknowns can trigger him, they always make sure he knows what to expect well in advance – the format of the test, the topics covered, even where he’ll be sitting. This preparation makes a huge difference in keeping his anxiety at bay. It’s like they’re providing him with a roadmap for the school day and any potentially stressful events. Having that open communication and support from the top down at his school has truly been a game-changer for us. It’s all about building a team that understands your child’s unique way of navigating the world and providing the clarity and predictability they need to thrive.

Crafting a Treatment Plan (Finding What Truly Clicks)

When you first get an autism diagnosis, one of the first things often recommended is therapy. And for many families, that’s exactly what their child needs to thrive. However, our journey took a slightly different path. We tried traditional therapy with our son, but honestly, it just didn’t seem to click for him. It could have been a few things – perhaps because he was a bit older when he was diagnosed, he might have perceived it as a punishment or something he had to do rather than something that would help him. Or maybe we just hadn’t found the right fit with the therapists we saw. Whatever the reason, we realized that traditional one-on-one therapy wasn’t the magic bullet for us.

Instead, we stumbled upon a solution that has been absolutely transformative: group activities. Getting him involved in Boy Scouts and his local Rubik’s Cube meetup groups has been incredible. What’s been key is that we are there with him. This allows us to gently guide him in social situations, offering clear cues when needed to help him understand interactions and correct behaviors in real-time. It’s also given him a safe space to try new things. Seeing his peers engage in activities often makes him more willing to step outside his comfort zone and give it a go himself.

Of course, it’s not always smooth sailing. We’ve definitely had our moments where things have backfired. I remember trying rock climbing – we thought he might enjoy the physical challenge, but it turned out to be a major sensory overload, and we had to take him out of there pretty quickly. But these experiences, even the challenging ones, are helping us learn more and more about his specific triggers. As we navigate the world together, we’re constantly learning what works and what doesn’t, allowing us to better support him and help him thrive in his own unique way. For us, it wasn’t about a formal therapy setting; it was about finding environments where he could connect with his peers, explore his interests, and learn social skills in a supportive and natural way, with his biggest cheerleaders right by his side.

From Solo Solver to Social Star: The Power of the Cube

You know those moments when you stumble upon something that just clicks for your child? For us, that moment arrived in the form of a Gan speed cube. Honestly, it was one of the best purchases we ever made for our son. What started as a curious exploration quickly blossomed into a full-blown passion. Now, he can solve that thing faster than I can find a matching pair of socks in the laundry!

But the magic of that speed cube goes way beyond just the satisfying click of the turning pieces. Because let’s face it, how many people can actually solve a Rubik’s Cube, let alone do it at lightning speed? This unexpected skill has become this incredible social bridge for him. Suddenly, in all sorts of situations – whether it’s waiting at the doctor’s office, at a new activity, or even just meeting someone for the first time – that cube becomes an instant conversation starter. People are genuinely fascinated, and it gives him a fantastic, comfortable topic to engage with others. It’s been amazing to see how this one little cube has opened up these social avenues for him, providing a natural and positive way for him to connect with the world around him. It’s a testament to how sometimes, the most unexpected interests can become the most valuable tools for connection.

Finding Your Tribe (Wherever You Can Find Them)

Let’s be honest, parenting a child with ASD can feel isolating at times. There are days when I feel like I’m deciphering an alien language while simultaneously diffusing a potential meltdown over mismatched socks. For some families, the answer to this feeling is finding local ASD support groups or connecting with autism centers. These can be incredible resources for information and connection. But for me, my tribe has looked a little different. I’ve found great comfort and understanding in online parent forums, where I’ve connected with other parents who are navigating similar waters. My coworkers who also have autistic children have been an absolute lifeline, offering practical advice and a knowing nod during those particularly challenging days.

Interestingly, I’ve also found it incredibly helpful to just talk to other neurotypical parents. It’s a great reminder that while parenting a child with autism comes with its own unique set of traits and challenges, the fundamental journey of raising a human being is full of twists, turns, and moments of sheer exhaustion for everyone. Listening to their experiences, learning from their perspectives, and sometimes just having a good vent session about the joys and frustrations of parenthood in general makes this wonderful adventure even better. And let’s be real, sometimes what you need is a fantastic babysitter so you and your partner can escape for an adult night out and recharge those batteries. Finding your support system, wherever that may be, is crucial. It reminds you that you’re not alone in this incredible, sometimes chaotic, but always loving journey.

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

Star Wars Costumes for Sensory-Friendly Kids: DIY Darth Vader and Rey

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Star Wars Costumes for Sensory-Friendly Kids: DIY Darth Vader and Rey

Costume parties, themed playdates, or just a regular Tuesday afternoon – my kids LOVE any excuse to dress up! However, finding costumes that work for both my son’s sensory sensitivities (he’s autistic) and my daughter’s boundless ADHD energy, as well as her desire to be both comfortable and stylish, can be a challenge. Today, I will share how we embraced the DIY spirit by creating homemade Star Wars costumes tailored to their unique needs!

Sibling Synergy: Darth Vader and Rey

My son has been channeling his inner Darth Vader lately, while my daughter, always wanting to be just like her big brother, but hates most of the star war characters. But when I showed her pictures of Rey, she was super excited and said she was so pretty and strong. What better way to celebrate their sibling bond than with coordinating Star Wars costumes?

Darth Vader (Sensory-Friendly Version):

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  • What you need:
  • How to Make:
    1. Prepare the Chest Panel: Cut out the Darth Vader design and size it to the t-shirt or if you can get the panel t-shirt this step is done!
    2. Attach the Chest Panel: Glue or sew the panel onto the t-shirt.
    3. Create the Cape: Measure, cut, and hem (if sewing) or glue the black fabric for the cape.
    4. Assemble the Outfit: T-shirt, pants/leggings, shoes, cape – done!
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Rey (ADHD-Friendly and Stylish)

  • What is needed:
  • How to Make:
    1. Arm Wraps: Cut fabric scraps into long strips and wrap them around your child’s forearms, securing with glue or safety pins.
    2. Body wrap: using the fabric create the gown that Rey wore.
    3. Belt: Tie the brown fabric belt around their waist.
    4. Assemble the Outfit: T-shirt, pants/leggings, boots/shoes, arm wraps, belt – ready to go!

Sensory-Friendly and ADHD-Friendly Tips:

  • Fabric Choice: Always prioritize soft, breathable fabrics that won’t irritate the skin.
  • Mask Optional: If masks are a sensory trigger, skip them! The costumes are recognizable without them.
  • Comfort is King (or Queen!): Loose-fitting, unrestrictive clothing is essential for both sensory sensitivities and ADHD wiggles.
  • Layer Up (or Down): Adapt to the weather with layers or by removing the cape.
  • Take Breaks: Allow for breaks from wearing the costumes if needed.
  • Fidget-Friendly Props: For an ADHD child, a prop like Rey’s lightsaber can provide a healthy outlet for fidgeting.

Beyond Halloween

These DIY Star Wars costumes aren’t just for Halloween! They’re perfect for imaginative play, themed birthday parties, or even just a fun day at home.

The Power of DIY

Creating costumes together is a fantastic way to bond with your kids, encourage their creativity, and cater to their individual needs. And when they put on those homemade costumes, they’re not just wearing clothes – they’re embodying their favorite characters and stepping into a world of imagination and adventure. May the Force (of creative costume-making) be with you!

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

Y darth vader and REY

Scouting Pinewood Derby Gone Wild: Our Spider-Cybertruck Story

Jodi Carlson
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Scouting Pinewood Derby Gone Wild: Our Spider-Cybertruck Story

The annual Pinewood Derby is a new yearly highlight in our house, and this year was especially exciting because it was my son’s second year participating! He’s been obsessed with Spider-Man forever, but lately, he’s developed a new fascination with those futuristic Cybertrucks we keep spotting around town. So, naturally, he decided to combine his two passions for this year’s Pinewood Derby car. The result? A Spider-Cybertruck that’s ready to race into the Spider-Verse! (Or at least down the track at the scouting event!)

what you need to make cybertruck

Building the Beast

Cybertruck Transformation: First things first, we needed to transform that basic pinewood block into a sleek, mean racing machine. Since my son loves the Tesla Cybertruck, we used it as our inspiration. We found some cool pictures online to use as a guide. Then, with my help (safety first!), he used a saw to carefully cut away parts of the wood block. We made the front end pointy and slanted, just like the Cybertruck, and we even cut out little triangles for the side windows. It was like sculpting with wood!

Smooth Operator: Sanding Time: After we had the basic shape, it was time to get smooth! We used sandpaper to smooth out any rough edges or bumps on the car body. My son was really careful and made sure all the surfaces were nice and even. He even used a finer grit sandpaper to make it extra smooth. This helps the car go faster because there’s less friction when it rolls down the track.

Paint Job: Now for the fun part – color! My son used a cool matte gray paint for the whole car body, just like the real Cybertruck. We let it dry completely. Next, my son used painter’s tape to carefully mask off the areas he wanted to keep gray, like the main body of the truck. Then, he used black paint to create the windows, door lines, and some cool stripes on the sides. Once the black paint was dry, he carefully peeled off the painter’s tape to reveal the sharp, clean lines. It looked awesome!

Spider-Verse Surprise: Now for the fun part! My son printed out tiny pictures of his favorite superheroes, Spider-Man and Spider-Cat, to put in the windows. He said it’s like they’re going for a ride in the Cybertruck!

License to Thrill: No Cybertruck is complete without a license plate! We made a tiny Cybertruck license on computer and printed out and glued to the derby car.

Speed Secrets: Okay, this is where the science comes in! My son is obsessed with numbers and physics, so we talked about how to make our car go super fast. We learned that friction (when things rub together) can slow things down. So, we used this special stuff called graphite on the axles. It’s like a super slippery powder that helps reduce friction and makes the wheels spin really fast. We also talked about gravity and how adding weight can help the car go faster. We carefully attached some small weights to the bottom of the car, right above the axles. My son even calculated the perfect amount of weight to add!

Race Day Ready

Our Spider-Cybertruck was definitely a head-turner at the Pinewood Derby! It was awesome to see the other kids’ reactions and to watch our unique creation race down the track. Did it win? Well, it came pretty close! But you know what my son said? He said the best part was learning about how to make it go faster and seeing all the science stuff in action. That’s my boy!

Tips for Your Own Cyber-Creation

Most Importantly: Have Fun! The Pinewood Derby is all about creativity, learning, and spending time together. So relax, enjoy the process, and make some memories!

Teamwork Makes the Dream Work: Building a Pinewood Derby car is a great activity to do together. You can help with the trickier parts, like using the saw, and your child can focus on the design and details.

Research is Key: If your child is into science, encourage them to research different ways to make their car faster. There are tons of resources online and even books about Pinewood Derby physics!

Embrace the Learning: Use the Pinewood Derby as an opportunity to teach your child about science concepts like friction, gravity, and aerodynamics.

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

Operation: Cross-Country Chaos (aka Moving with Kids)

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Operation: Cross-Country Chaos (aka Moving with Kids)

Okay, folks, buckle up. Moving across the country with a 5 and 8-year-old is like trying to herd squirrels while riding a unicycle. I did it (Ohio to North Carolina!), and lived to tell the tale (mostly). So, if you’re about to embark on this adventure, here’s my mom-approved survival guide:

1. The “Packing My Preciouses” Power Move:

Let your kids have some control over packing. I know, I know, the urge to purge every single toy is strong. But trust me, a few familiar comfort items can be sanity savers. My kids got to choose a box of their favorite toys and books. This gave them a sense of agency (important when their world is being turned upside down) and meant I didn’t have to listen to whining about missing Mr. Snuggles for the entire drive. Just be prepared to “edit” later if their “essentials” include 17 stuffed unicorns.

2. School Enrollment: ASAP:

Get them enrolled in their new school faster than you can say “parent-teacher conference.” Routine is key, and the sooner they start making friends, the sooner they’ll stop asking, “When are we going back to Ohio?” We moved a week before kindergarten and 3rd grade started, giving them a chance to go to meet the teacher night and see their new school, then jump right in making new friends.

3. Extracurricular Extravaganza:

Swimming, dance, art, scouting – sign them up for something. It’s an excellent way for them to meet kids with similar interests, burn off energy (a crucial factor in cross-country moves), and give you a much-needed break. My son loves Rubik’s cubes, and back in Ohio, there were no groups or anything to get into, but here in Raleigh area, he found his tribe of like-minded kids right away.

4. The Grandparent/Cousin Connection (aka How to Avoid the “I Miss Them” Meltdown):

Staying in touch with family back home is vital. We did weekly video calls with the grandparents. Pro-tip: Schedule them in advance so you don’t forget (mom brain is real, people). We also sent little care packages – drawings, stickers, silly photos – to keep the connection going. Bonus points if you can plan a visit back “home” sooner rather than later. For us, the grandparents made a plan to visit us within a month of us moving here. From there, we make ongoing plans to see them or for them to come here. For the cousins, we do video calls when we can and make sure to visit 3 or 4 times a year.

5. Exploring Your New Territory (aka “Please Don’t Make Me Go Back to Ohio” Tour):

Become a tourist in your own town! Explore the local parks, museums, restaurants (kid-friendly ones, obviously), and quirky attractions. We hit up the North Carolina Museum of Natural Sciences and the Marbles Kids Museum in Raleigh – total wins. The more positive experiences they have in their new home, the faster they’ll adapt.

6. The “It’s Okay to Be Sad” Talk:

Moving is a big deal, and kids are allowed to have big feelings about it. Let them know it’s okay to miss their old friends, their old house, their old everything. Listen to them, validate their feelings, and reassure them that things will get better. And maybe have some chocolate on hand. For them, of course. (Wink, wink.)

7. Patience, Grasshopper (aka Don’t Lose Your Mind):

This is the most important piece of advice. Moving is stressful for everyone. There will be meltdowns (yours and theirs), there will be tears, and there will be moments when you question your life choices. Just breathe, remember that this is temporary, and know that eventually, you’ll all settle in and create new memories in your new home. And if all else fails, there’s always ice cream.

Year and a Half Later: The Verdict

So, here we are, over a year after the great migration. And guess what? Nobody wants to move back! Nobody. There were definitely some bumps along the road – a few tearful goodbyes, some initial struggles with making friends, and the occasional longing for familiar haunts. But now? My kids are thriving. They love their school, they’ve found their tribe (one is a budding artist, the other loving scouting and rubik cube group!), and they can navigate our new city like pros. My husband and I? We’ve discovered hidden gems we never would have found in Ohio, and honestly, the change of scenery has been good for us too. Winters are less depressing and we are both thriving as well.

The video calls with family are still regular, but now they’re filled with stories about new adventures and inside jokes from their new schools. We still make visiting back “home” a regular thing, which is fun, but it also solidifies the feeling that, yes, North Carolina is our home now.

The biggest surprise? How quickly the kids adapted. Kids are resilient, and with a little love, support, and a whole lot of patience, they can adjust to big changes faster than we often expect. So, if you’re in the thick of a cross-country move, hang in there. It might feel chaotic now, but a year from now, you might just be surprised at how much you all love your new life.

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

Building Bridges and Making Memories: A Fun Science Experiment for Kids with Magnetic Tiles and Popsicle Sticks

Jodi Carlson
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Building Bridges and Making Memories: A Fun Science Experiment for Kids with Magnetic Tiles and Popsicle Sticks

Ah, the joys of being a mom. You know, between the laundry, the never-ending snack requests, and those sweet little “Mom, I’m bored!” cries that haunt me like a bad horror movie, it’s easy to forget that we’re also supposed to be raising tiny humans with science minds. But, guess what? I found a way to make both work — by building a bridge that holds a Hot Wheels car using magnetic tiles and popsicle sticks. I’m basically a science genius now, right?

Here’s the deal: this fun and easy project not only provides your kids with an opportunity to exercise their creativity and critical thinking, but it also introduces them to some fascinating science principles like balance, structure, and engineering. Plus, it’s a fantastic bonding moment for you and your little one (because who doesn’t want to build a bridge that doesn’t fall over when you place a tiny car on it?).

Materials You’ll Need:

  • Magnetic tiles (you know, those colorful squares and triangles that magically stick together and make your life 10x easier — thank you, magnetic magic!) Get on Amazon
  • Popsicle sticks (because they’re just as versatile as they are nostalgic) Get on Amazon
  • Hot Wheels car (or any small, lightweight toy car)
  • Super glue or tape (optional but highly recommended to prevent disaster)
  • A flat surface (I swear, this project gets a lot easier if you actually use a table)

Step 1: Gather Your Supplies and Prepare for Chaos

Okay, before we start, let’s establish something — things are going to get messy. Your kids are going to scatter magnetic tiles everywhere like a kid on a sugar high, and you’ll be just over here trying to contain your adult-level need for neatness. But trust the process, this is where the fun begins.

Start by showing your kids how magnetic tiles work. Let them build a few random structures. They’ll probably make a “house” or, in my son’s case, a “rocket ship” that is absolutely nothing like a rocket ship, but hey, let’s just go with it.

Step 2: Plan Your Bridge

Now, the real challenge begins. Ask your kids, “What does a bridge need to stand up and hold something heavy?” While they’re over there pondering world-changing questions, you’ll sneakily give them hints: “You need support beams! You need balance! Maybe try building it in the shape of a triangle?” This is where the whole learning part comes into play.

Here’s the science: Bridges need to distribute weight evenly so they don’t collapse. Triangles are great for this because their shape naturally supports force — it’s like a mini-lesson in engineering! Watch your kids get excited as they figure out how to use the magnetic tiles to create a solid foundation and a support system.

Step 3: Build the Bridge with Popsicle Sticks

Now, it’s time to put those popsicle sticks to good use. Have your kids use the sticks as cross beams and supports, attaching them between the magnetic tile walls you created. Thanks to their sturdy nature, popsicle sticks will give your structure the added support it needs to hold up under the weight of the Hot Wheels car. The glue or tape can help keep things from falling apart prematurely, but little wobbling is part of the learning process.

Step 4: The Moment of Truth: Test the Bridge

Once the bridge is built, place your Hot Wheels car on top and let out an exaggerated gasp, “Will it hold?!” This is the part where I pretend I’m a serious scientist and try to look concerned, but inside, I’m just hoping this actually works. (Spoiler: It usually does!)

This is the point when you’ll see your kids light up, realizing they’ve created something that can hold weight without collapsing. Success! You just built a bridge — and it didn’t even require you to pay for an expensive engineering degree!

Step 5: Reflect and Bond

As you sit back and marvel at your bridge-building masterpiece, take a moment to chat with your kids about the science involved. Ask questions like, “Why do you think the bridge didn’t collapse?” or “What could we do to make it even stronger next time?” This is an awesome opportunity to turn your kids into budding scientists without even knowing it.

The best part? You just spent quality time with your child, laughing, learning, and bonding over popsicle sticks and magnetic tiles. Honestly, I couldn’t think of a better way to embrace the chaos of motherhood — this is multitasking at its finest.

I even got my 2 year old involved building at the table with us. While she probably didn’t soak up much of the science talk, she sure had a blast building things and watching them fall down!

The Benefits for Kids (and Mom Too!):

  • Boosts problem-solving skills: Building a bridge teaches kids to think critically about how things work. They’ll have to troubleshoot when their designs don’t hold up.
  • Develops fine motor skills: Those little hands will get a workout assembling magnetic tiles and popsicle sticks, improving dexterity.
  • Encourages teamwork and communication: Working together to build something teaches kids to collaborate and share ideas.
  • It’s fun! This isn’t just about learning — it’s about having fun and creating something cool as a team.

So, next time you’re looking for a way to escape the chaos and teach your kids a little something about engineering (and life in general), grab those magnetic tiles and popsicle sticks. You’ll not only build a bridge but also some priceless memories along the way.

It may seem like just a simple project, but trust me — creating a bridge with your kids using magnetic tiles and popsicle sticks is a big deal. And, hey, if your bridge survives a Hot Wheels car on top, consider it a win. You just made science, fun, and bonding a whole lot easier. So grab those materials and get ready to rock the world of engineering, one popsicle stick at a time.

Other Fun Science and Building Activities to Try

If your kids had a blast building their bridge with magnetic tiles and popsicle sticks, why not keep the momentum going with a few more exciting (and educational) projects? As a mom who gets it, I know how important it is to keep those little minds engaged and learning through play. Here are a couple of other fun activities you can try — and don’t worry, they involve minimal mess and maximum fun (well, mostly):

Weighing the Odds: Finding the Perfect Balance Between Dice and Legos on Popsicle Sticks

Have you ever thought about blending the mathematical thrill of dice with the creativity of Legos? No? Well, now you can! In this project, your kids will use popsicle sticks, dice, and Legos to build balanced structures while learning about probability, balance, and design. It’s like engineering, math, and playtime all rolled into one (pun intended). Read more

Build a Lego Volcano Eruption in Your Kitchen + Free Lego Memory Game Printable

Let’s take the science fun to the next level: a Lego volcano eruption! Not only will your child get to play with their favorite building blocks, but they’ll also dive into some serious science. Read more

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

Momming Ain’t Easy: Surviving the Chaos Without Losing Your Sanity

Jodi Carlson
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Momming Ain’t Easy: Surviving the Chaos Without Losing Your Sanity

et’s be real, parenting is basically a full-time job… with no paycheck, no sick days, and no HR department to file complaints. You’re a chef, a chauffeur, a therapist, a human GPS, and a personal assistant to tiny dictators who have zero concept of personal space. Fun, right?

Between school drop-offs, doctor appointments, meal prepping (or let’s be honest, ordering takeout again), and playing referee in sibling death matches, it’s a miracle any of us are still functioning. And if you’re not stressed, are you even parenting?

But here’s the good news: while we can’t eliminate the stress of raising kids (unless you have a secret nanny fund, in which case, share your secrets), there are ways to make it slightly more bearable. So, grab your cold coffee and let’s dive into the survival guide.

Seek Professional Help (No, Not Just the Wine Bottle)

Look, there’s no shame in admitting you’re overwhelmed. In fact, if you’re NOT overwhelmed, I have questions. Stress, anxiety, and the occasional existential crisis are part of the job description. But when those feelings start turning into full-blown burnout or parental depression, it’s time to tag in the professionals.

Therapists exist for a reason, and no, venting to your toddler doesn’t count as therapy. (They will just stare at you blankly and ask for snacks.) If you’re struggling with stress, anxiety, or feeling like you’re one meltdown away from running away to a remote island, find a professional who can help.

And if therapy feels like too much work to schedule (because let’s be honest, finding a babysitter is harder than solving a Rubik’s cube blindfolded), even just talking to another mom friend who gets it can be a lifesaver.

Build a Support System (Or Bribe One Into Existence)

They say “it takes a village,” but what they don’t tell you is that finding a village is harder than keeping your house clean for more than five minutes. If you’re lucky enough to have family or friends nearby, use them—grandparents love feeling needed, and nothing bonds you faster with other moms than shared trauma (I mean, experiences).

If your “village” consists of a partner who mysteriously disappears every time a diaper needs changing, it’s time to start outsourcing. Join a local mom group, swap babysitting favors, or—worst case scenario—just befriend another tired mom at the playground and hope she doesn’t ghost you.

Schedule ‘Me Time’ (Even If It’s in the Bathroom)

Ah, self-care. The unicorn of motherhood. You’re told it’s important, but when exactly are you supposed to fit it in? Between keeping small humans alive and attempting to remember the last time you showered, it’s tricky.

So, let’s get creative:

Early Morning Solitude – Waking up before the kids for a few minutes of quiet is great… in theory. In reality, it’s just another way to be exhausted earlier in the day. But hey, if it works for you, go for it.

The Bathroom Escape – Lock yourself in the bathroom for five whole minutes of silence. No, you’re not going to the bathroom. Yes, your kids will bang on the door like the FBI. Stay strong.

Nap Time = Mom Time – If your kids still nap, don’t waste that precious time cleaning. Watch Netflix, eat snacks in peace, or just stare at the wall in glorious silence.

Lower the Parenting Bar (No One’s Giving Out Gold Stars)

Somewhere along the line, society decided that moms need to be Pinterest-perfect, baking organic snacks, doing themed crafts, and hosting playdates that look like mini weddings. Let’s be clear: this is a trap.

You do not need to make heart-shaped sandwiches or hand-sew Halloween costumes to be a great mom. Sometimes, survival is the only goal. So, here’s permission to:

  • Pretend you don’t hear them fighting and hope they sort it out themselves.
  • Serve cereal for dinner. They’ll survive.
  • Let them wear mismatched socks. Fashion is subjective.
  • Ignore the laundry for one more day (or five).

Laugh (Because Crying in Public Is Frowned Upon)

Honestly, if you don’t laugh at the chaos, you’ll probably just cry into your cold coffee. Kids are ridiculous. They argue over imaginary rules in games, cry because their banana is “too banana-y,” and somehow take 47 minutes to put on shoes.

So, instead of losing your mind over the daily insanity, lean into it. Start keeping a list of the weirdest things your kids cry about (trust me, it’ll be comedy gold). Take pictures of the messes instead of stressing over them. And remind yourself that one day, you’ll miss the madness. (Or at least that’s what people with grown kids say.)

Cheat the System (No Guilt Allowed)

Desperate times call for desperate mom hacks. Here are some survival tricks you should use:

  • Screen Time = Free Babysitter – No shame in handing them a tablet when you need a break. Anyone judging you is not your real friend.
  • Hide Snacks for Yourself – Because sometimes, you deserve a snack that no one asks for a bite of.
  • Let Someone Else Read Bedtime Stories – Audiobooks exist for a reason.
  • Buy Pre-Cut Veggies – You’re busy, and chopping takes time. Zero guilt.
  • Drive-Thru Everything – If it can be picked up without leaving the car, it’s automatically a win.

Remember, This Is Just a Season (A Loud, Sticky, Exhausting Season)

In the grand scheme of life, the chaos of raising kids is temporary. One day, your house will be clean, your car will not smell like old french fries, and no one will be screaming your name 147 times in a row.

So, in the meantime, embrace the madness, do what you need to do to survive, and most importantly—give yourself some grace. You’re doing better than you think.

Now, go hide in the bathroom for five minutes. You’ve earned it.

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

How to Look After Your Mental Health: A Mom’s Guide to Surviving Chaos (With a Little Help From Massage, Facials, and Stretching)

Jodi Carlson
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How to Look After Your Mental Health: A Mom’s Guide to Surviving Chaos (With a Little Help From Massage, Facials, and Stretching)

Let’s be honest—figuring out how to look after your mental health can be confusing, overwhelming, and, at times, downright impossible. As a mom, life is filled with chaos: the constant noise, never-ending to-do lists, and, of course, the small human tornadoes that we lovingly call our children. The idea of focusing on my own mental well-being often feels like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. So, what do I do when it feels like my brain is about to explode? Well, I turn to a few trusty strategies (and a bit of humor) to keep my mental health in check.

Here are some tips I’ve discovered along the way that work—especially when you’re a mom trying to juggle everything.

How to Look After Your Mental Health: 3 Effective Tips from a Mom Who Needs a Nap

1. Do Things You Actually Enjoy (Other Than Hiding in the Bathroom)

As a mom, “me time” is a joke. The only time I get to myself is when I’m locked in the bathroom, pretending to use the restroom while the kids are in the living room talking about how a creeper is going to explode on them in Minecraft. But in all seriousness, one of the most effective ways I’ve found to keep my sanity is by scheduling out real activities I enjoy.

For me, it’s all about the little things that make me feel like a human again. And yes, I’ve turned some of these into regular “appointments” because I’ve realized they’re essential for my mental health. Here’s what works for me:

  • Massage Therapy: I go for a massage every month, and let me tell you, it’s not just a luxury—it’s my lifeline. I don’t know how I’ve survived this long without it. If you’re stressed out, you’ve got to get those knots out. If anything, the massage therapist deserves a medal for dealing with my tense shoulders.
  • Monthly Facials: Ok, don’t judge me. Facials might sound fancy, but they are actually life-changing. Not only does my skin look fresh, but I feel pampered for a whole hour without being interrupted by “Mom, I need a snack!” or “Where’s my favorite toy?”
  • Stretch Zone (Weekly): Ah, the Stretch Zone. If you’ve never tried it, it’s like someone gently stretches you into a state of peace and calm while you simultaneously wonder why you didn’t start this earlier. Weekly visits help me stay limber and manage stress. I walk out feeling like a new person—and a bit more relaxed than when I came in.

It’s amazing how a little TLC goes a long way. Trust me, if you’re feeling mentally drained, pamper yourself a little. Your family will thank you later (and maybe even give you some space for a change).

2. Sing Your Heart Out (Even if You’re Off-Key)

Okay, this one might sound a little funny, but hear me out: I’ve discovered that there’s no better therapy than blasting some tunes in the car and singing like no one is listening. Seriously, when I’m driving and I’ve got my favorite playlist on (preferably something loud and upbeat), I completely forget about the 100 million tasks I have to do for work, the kids, and even my parents. I turn the volume up, roll the windows down (weather permitting, of course), and just let loose. The best part? I don’t care if I’m singing off-key—I’m feeling the music, and it helps me forget about the chaos for a while.

It’s like a mini mental health reset in the middle of my day. I’m able to shake off the stress and clear my head, if only for a few minutes. Honestly, I highly recommend this method—just make sure your kids aren’t in the car if you want to maintain any shred of musical dignity! 🎶💃

3. Talk to Someone You Trust (But Only When You’re Not in Mom Mode)

I’ve found that one of the most powerful ways to handle mental health is simply by talking about it. But here’s the catch: you can’t just talk to anyone. You need to find someone who truly understands. So, when I’m feeling overwhelmed, I turn to my husband (bless him) or my close friends who get it. The conversation usually starts with, “I’m about to lose it, I need to vent now!”

Talking helps. A lot. But here’s the thing: I’ve realized that it’s important to talk to my kids about my feelings, too. It helps them understand that adults have emotions, just like they do. Sure, it might not be the easiest conversation, especially when they’re in the middle of demanding snacks or fighting over the TV remote. But when I take the time to explain that I’m feeling stressed or overwhelmed, it teaches them that it’s okay to talk about their own feelings too. It’s a great way to show them that emotions are normal and it’s healthy to express them, even if they’re still figuring out how to deal with theirs.

So, go ahead—call your best friend or vent to your spouse. Heck, talk to your dog if you need to (they make the best listeners). Having someone to share your thoughts with is incredibly helpful when you feel like your mind is racing a mile a minute.

When DIY Mental Health Isn’t Enough: Seek Professional Help (Or An Academy With Good Reviews)

Sometimes, let’s face it, all the massages, facials, and stretches in the world won’t cut it. If things are really tough, it’s important to get the help of a professional. Whether you’re a mom, a teenager, or someone with years of life experience under their belt, reaching out to an academy or professional organization can give you the extra support you need.

For example, if you’re dealing with more serious issues, places like Talkspace have great reviews for providing specialized care. Don’t be afraid to take the leap and ask for help—it’s one of the best decisions you can make for yourself.

Other Ideas for Self-Care for Busy Moms

If you’re looking for more ways to recharge and make momming a little easier, I’ve got you covered! From quick relaxation techniques to activities that leave you feeling like a brand new person, there are plenty of options to add a little extra self-care to your routine. Trust me, I know how hard it can be to carve out time for yourself, but even the smallest moments can make a huge difference.

For more inspiration on how to prioritize self-care, be sure to check out my blog post: 4 Ideas for Self-Care for Busy Moms. It’s packed with more tips to help you take care of yourself while juggling everything else life throws your way.

Remember, you’re doing amazing—don’t forget to take a breather, even if it’s just for a few minutes!

Enjoy every minute being a mom and continue to inspire your kids!

Moving House: The Ideal Checklist for 2024

Jodi Carlson
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Moving House: The Ideal Checklist for 2024

When it comes to moving house in 2024, you need to know what is involved in the process, and this is something that plays a big role in making your move go more smoothly. It is vital to make sure you focus on some of the leading ideas that play a role in allowing you to come up with the perfect house move, and this means planning things out in advance, and getting a handle on what you need to get right. 

There are a lot of things that you need to try to stay on top of when it comes to making the most of this, and you have to make sure you get the perfect house move checklist. This is something you have to try to make the most of as much as possible, and this is the ideal moving house checklist for 2024:

  • Change your address

One of the most important (and overlooked) parts of any house move involves changing your address, and updating it with the relevant companies and utilities, as well as your bank and your employer. 

  • Declutter

There are loads of great options that you need to make the most of when it comes to reducing and removing clutter, and you can Google ‘climate controlled self storage near me’ in order to find a secure facility to store your valuables whilst decluttering.

  • Research removals companies

You need to make sure you find a leading removal company in order to facilitate the perfect move in 2024. Try to make sure you find the ideal local removal companies that can help you make a stress-free move.

  • Choose your moving day

Choosing your moving day can also play a big role in helping with any house move, and this is something that you need to try to make the most of as much as possible. 

  • Have a packing checklist

Packing is the least fun part of any move, and this is why you need to make sure you have a checklist to work toward. This is something that is going to help you get your things boxed up in good time, and remove one of the most stressful parts of the process. 

  • Plan the route

You will need to have an idea of the route from your old place to your new place so that you can do the journey, and this is something you need to plan in advance so you have an idea of where you’re going. 

  • Source local schools

Schooling is one of the top moving priorities for your family, and though this isn’t linked to the actual move itself, it is one of the most important parts of making the right decision when it comes to making the move work for you.

If you are looking to make your house move as stress-free as possible, there are a lot of factors that play a role in this, and you need to make sure you make the most of this as much as you can. There are so many elements that can help you here, and this is something that you can use to help make the best possible move.

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